I don’t always watch TV. But when I do, there’s always people fighting and upbraiding each other. Today I bumped into a scene where an ustad furiously damned a widow of his brother as blasphemer to ulama just because she’s against the renovation of her (ex)husband graveyard. Why do these people, whose voice are heard nation-wide, make such a haphazard speech? How can he quote scripture’s verses to justify his action and, even worse, to blame others?
Please think wisely before you condemn others. You’re not Raqib & Atid who know exactly the good & bad deeds of human, are you? Unless your intention is to transfer pahala to the pertinent person, don’t easily judge others.
Don’t enjoy making people feel lowly, especially when it’s about something wherein there’s still much debate, e.g culture, religion, taste, and even money. People with revealing traditional dress are not always prostitutes, atheist are not the same as criminal, rockers don’t always love violence, and rich people aren’t always greedy.
Strangely, many people insult someone else but they still follow the update of the condemned person. If you think his life is unworthy, why must you keep an eye on him? If you think she's is wrong in almost everything, what makes you pay attention to every single move she makes? It's not useful for you, isn't it? It gives you nothing but torment, right? Otherwise, do you seek humor in others' foolishness? I think it's better to enjoy intellectual joke or maybe a little slapstick in comedy show and movie.
