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Vision of Social Empowerment

Today I had an interesting convo with some coworkers in which we share stories and dreams. Firstly, we discussed about Development Expo that will be held next week in commemoration of Indonesia's Independence Day. Our institution are invited to display some products made by CCT members. Then the topic branched out to common mission: social business.

We plan to found some sustainable programs for future, e.g. cooperative union, affordable grocery store, group entrepreneurship, etc. Whoa.. I can't believe how similar our thoughts are. It's like finding a highway to make my dreams come true. They mostly have much more experience in society empowerment, so it's inspiring to have them as friends.

Lately I think my job is like Narnia that God wanted me to find. It looks plain from outside but it’s full of wonders once you get inside. It’s such a blessing to get an opportunity to learn in real life classes: how to deal with bureaucracy, how to build a working system, how to do office administration, and more importantly, how to embrace people & mobilize them. It feels good to talk with people about idea, to share information, and suddenly the topic about my own self is much less interesting. I lose a big part of selfishness and earn bigger portion of selflessness. But, loving people helps me to love myself more.

Yes, here I discover priceless treasure: PEOPLE. One person gives you at least one lesson. So, knowing hundreds of them gives you uncountable. People are potential assets once we figure out how to empower them.
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Enlightenment

Tuhan mengirimkan malaikatnya dalam berbagai rupa. Mana kusangka kali ini Ia menyapa lewat bapak tua yang tak sengaja kutemui. Tiba-tiba saja ia telah duduk di sampingku, bercerita panjang lebar tentang banyak hal, dan memberi petuah yang paling kubutuhkan saat ini. Di tengah padang yang gersang, dialah satu-satunya oase hari itu.

Baru kusadari setelah ia berlalu, Tuhan telah menyentuh hatiku. Terima kasih atas penguatan dan penghiburan-Mu. Aku akan belajar membuka diri terhadap orang lain tanpa terlalu banyak prasangka. Hanya dengan hati yang murni aku mampu mendengar suara-Mu lewat sesamaku.
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New Year Blessing

Maybe you wonder what did I do to welcome new year of 2012. Umm, it's okay if you don't.
*brooded in the corner*
Well, I'll tell you no matter what. Actually, I was hospitalized in new year eve for undiagnosed illness. Blood test, urine test, and USG showed nothing wrong with my body. But, it felt like hell just to walk, to sleep, to urinate, and even to breathe.

But, this experience really shed a light on me. I realize that it's such a blessing to be able to take a deep breath, enjoying oxygen as much as I can, to sleep comfortably in any position, to walk everywhere my heart tell me, and to laugh as loud as I can.

Someone took this pic when I sat powerlessly on hospital bed
while my mom fell to sleep on couch due to fatigue
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Men of My Life

I was watching "Knight and Day" with my younger brother in the living room. Near the end of the movie, my dad walked in and joined us. It was a scene where Tom Cruise was running around.

Dad : "What is it? 007? Is that Pierce Brosnan?"
Me : (shocked) "No! He's Tom Cruise."
Dad : "Oh yea... Now that he stopped running, I can see that he's not Brosnan. Well, I can't tell the difference between Tom Cruise and Brad Pitt."
Me : (even more shocked) "Dad, even their hair colors are different." (then went on to explain the difference)
Dad : "This Tom Cruise is the one with Angelina Jolie?"
Me : "That's Brad Pitt."
Dad : "Jennifer Aniston?"
Me : "That was Brad Pitt, too."
Dad : "So, who is Tom Cruise's wife?"
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What A Sister Does

My younger brother is head over heels in love with this girl.


Next thing I know, I'm busy searching anything IU to give him.
Haha... Well...


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The Alienated Happiness

How would you feel...
when you are happy with something
but everyone doesn't seem happy for you?

What if they tell you to find another happiness
right from the moment they find out?

What if the reasons are just so out of reach
'cause it's already clung on you
since the day you were born?

Will you feel so powerless...??

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FAQs

Sesering kami memperkenalkan diri, sesering itu pula kami harus menjawab pertanyaan2 ini. Seperti Noe yang terus-terusan ditanyai arti "Letto". Bagai Sandra Dewi yang tak henti dipertanyakan kejombloannya. Layaknya Saiful Jamil yang selalu ditanya soal Dewi Persik.
So, if u think u're special for asking these questions, well, u're wrong.

1. Aduh, bedainnya gimana dunk?
Jawab: Time will answer. (Seriously. Temen2 yg udah lama kenal itu pada bilang, "Kalian kembar tapi ga ada mirip2nya ya.")

2. Yang lebih tua yang mana?
Jawab: Secara biologis atau secara kultural? Kalo secara biologis, Utin yang lahir duluan. Tapi, menurut budaya Jawa, yang lahir belakangan jadi mbaknya.

3. Adekmu kembar juga?
Jawab: Dipikirnya ibu kita pabrik anak kembar, apa? Enggak ya... Cuma ada adek cowok semata wayang, ganteng dhewe.

4. Pacarnya sering ketuker?
Jawab: ARE YOU INSANE?! Ga boleh jadi pacar lah, kalo ga bisa bedain kita!!!!!

5. Pengen punya cowok kembar juga?
Jawab: Kalo Marcel-Mischa mau, kita siy oke2 aja. Junsu-Junho juga ga pa-pa dink.

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I'm a Romantic Seme


You are a Romantic Seme!

A true romantic, you're safest sticking with a partner who is gentle and can appreciate your mature, loving ways and protective nature. Most often found with a handful of roses and wine, you are committed to your partner and their happiness, which makes you a perfect match for the Innocent Uke, who you will dedicate yourself to and lavish with gifts and attention.

Most compatible with: Innocent Uke, Clueless Uke
Least compatible with: Badass Uke, Dramatic Uke

***

That was the result of a quiz I took in a website-that-cannot-be-named-here.
Hahaha
TERNYATA AKU SEME????
A romantic one though...
Come to mama, innocent uke!
\(^_^)/


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The Next Suzanna

Banyak orang yang bilang aku mirip Suzanna. Tau Suzanna ga? Itu lhooow... Ratu film horor Indonesia. Masa' gitu aja ga tau.
:p

Harusnya, lain lubuk lain ikannya, lain ladang lain belalangnya kan? Lha ini qo, udah pindah sekolah, teteeep aja dibilang mirip Suzanna.
Bakatku untuk mirip sama Suzanna udah kelihatan pas SMP. Temen2 mulai manggil aku Suzanna. Hindoon lebih tega lagi. Dia manggil aku "Sunder" dan berulang kali berusaha nyabut paku di kepalaku.
Di SMA, dengan temen-temen yang beda, I thought I was safe. Sampai suatu hari ada yang bilang, "Unin, kamu mirip Suzanna ya," dan aku hanya bisa terbelalak.
Pas kuliah, jelas kan, temen-temennya beda lagi. Guess what. Mereka tetep berhasil menemukan Suzanna dalam diriku.
Berarti emang kemiripan ini bersifat objektif ya.

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Backstabbers

I have no idea... 
Why on earth some people choose to be backstabbers? 
Are they satisfied to see the scar they made to the people close to them?

But--for all of the victim of this kind of crime--maybe you should thank them for doing that to you. 
It can be a golden opportunity to learn about human nature. 
It's also the best way to learn how to manage your own emotion.
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He Has Cheated On Me

Sebenernya males semales-malesnya buat ngepost soal ini.
Udah capek marah2 ke Eunhyuk.
Pengennya sih nyumpel2in info ini ke alam bawah sadar aja.
Hilang ingatan juga gapapa deh.

Tapi udah kepalang basah.
Hati udah tercabik2.
Luka itu menganga di dalam dada, berdarah-darah.

Datte, aku pikir uneg2 ini perlu disalurkan biar gak bikin eneg sendiri.
Kalo ditahan2 bisa mencekik leher, memblokir asupan oksigen, dan berakibat pada cacat otak permanen.
*saraf lebay masi berfungsi dengan baik*

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Celebration of 20 (Session 3)

Awalnya cuma tiga orang menikmati hidup di Frappio.


Lalu datanglah makhluk-makhluk lain,
yang muncul dari antah berantah...


Tapi rame kok...
We were very happy. Thank you, Everyone!!

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Faal : Lunas!

Akhirnya bisa mudik juga. Setelah hampir sebulan gak pulang ke habitat, akhirnya kita bisa melihat Klaten Bersinar lagi.

Kenapa gak pernah pulang? Kacang lupa kulitnya? Atau sekedar lupa jalan pulang?

Um, bukan dua2nya.

It’s all because a thing called PRAKTIKUM. Entah bagaimana prosesnya sampai praktikum OW dan Faal bisa ditempatkan berdampingan dengan harmonis di semester ini. Walhasil, aku gak kenal lagi yang namanya hari libur. Weekend malah jadi saat-saat paling sibuk dalam seminggu.

Tapi sebelum mudik kemaren, satu praktikum sudah ditutup dengan selamat sentausa. Dengan mengebiri hak libur kita, asdosnya ngadain post-test yang menandai berakhirnya periode praktikum Faal. Yuhuuuiii!!!

KESIMPULAN

Faal : LUNAS !!

*ekspresi katarsis para praktikan*

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Celebration of 20

Masih nyambung ama event ultah kita yang ke-20.
Ya duunx, pelengseran dari jabatan remaja harus dibahas abis2an.
Arrgh, bentar lagi pasti ditanyain kapan nikahnya.
>,< Etapitapi, di luar stressor itu, kita sempat berfoya2 ama temen2 lhooh. As we all know, menurut norma yang berlaku dalam masyarakat, kewajiban orang yang ultah adalah traktir2. Tapi, menyadari bahwa peer kita terdiri dari berbagai golongan yang nggak bakal nyambung kalo dicampur jadi satu, akhirnya kita mutusin buat bagi2 acara traktiran ke dalam beberapa kloter.

1. Dec 11th, 2009 @ Silla Resto
Subjek : Temen2 kos

Karena jadwal yang padat, acara ini bisa dibilang spontan banget. Kita mutusinnya udah sore2 abis Ux selese praktikum. Trus malemnya langsung berangkat.
Tapi, nggak nyesel deh ke sini. Soalnya kita jadi lebi deket ama kebudayaan PARA calon suami. Hahaha.

Selain menu chinese, japanese, ama korean, pengunjung di sini juga oriental ting2. Ada bapak2-cakep yang nelpon pake bahasa korea, "Yeoboseyo." Kita langsung pasang aksi manggut2 sok ngerti gitu. Ckakakak

Malam itu kita pesen chicken katsu, nabe yaki udon, tempura, ama kimbap (biar suami korea gak ngerasa dicuekin, ahahahah). Ini hasil dari diskusi panjang lebar ama pramusajinya lhow. Males banged kalo ampe salah pesen. Maap ya Mbak, orang2 udik ini ngrepotin banged.


2. Dec 12th, 2009 @ Pizza Hut
Subjek : Temen2 Psikologi

Kita milih PH karena si Induk belom pernah ngerasain pizza di hutan sono. Hwahahahah
^o^v
Selesai Ux praktikum (lagi), kita langsung hijrah ke Pizza Hut. Pizza yang yummy, salad yang fresh, dan cowok uke di meja sebelah. Owowowow, surga dunia!
Tapi teu2p siy, kita bikin malu diri sendiri dengan heboh poto2an di situ. Padahal ada mas pramusaji yang ganteng. Heheheh

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Adorable

Some friends and i have visited SLBN 2 Yogyakarta for 3 times due to an observation-and-interview assignment.
Though the assigment itself is a bit nerve-breaking, but personally I found a very heart-warming atmosphere there. A sensation of purity when I affiliated with them is overwhelming.

I realized that, like any other kids, they are so innocent and lovable. The only difference is that they have to fight more in this world.
Nevertheless, their parents must be the very blessed ones because God trusts them to have a special child.

Here are some pics from our activities there.


And my favorite one (
biar aja dibilang makin mirip tante-tante... cakep banget siy ni anak, udah cocok jadi seleb cilik) :

*sukses berpedofil-ria sama Adam*

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Coincidence

A scene from KAT-TUN - One Drop


I just went through what they're talking about.
Yang mau aku ceritain ini sepele banget, a very small part of my day.
Jadi begini...

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Mbah Rin's Wed

Kekkon omedetou, Mbah Rina...!!!!
May u guys become one and never be apart.
Though you guys are still so young,
but we do hope that both of you can face this marriage in a mature way.


(taken : October 18th, 2009)
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Shameful Day

Hari Kamis kemaren serangkaian peristiwa yang beresiko menjatuhkan image-ku terjadi bertubi-tubi.
Pertama, kejadian di kelas Faal. Tiada puting tiada beliung, tiba-tiba dosen faalku pinjem flash buat ngopy materi ke komputer kelas. Dengan tiada prasangka buruk, aku kasihin aja flashku tersayang. Setelah dibawa ibunya, aku baru inget kalo background flashnya… SHINee!!! LAGI POSE HOT DI POHON.
Akhirnya insiden pun memuncak. Tu gambar nampang dengan sukses di LCD segede Merbabu di depan kelas. Puluhan pasang mata memandangnya dengan khidmat lalu mendengung bergairah, “Ooooowwhhh….”
Pemandangan indah emang….
KALO DILIATNYA BUKAN PAS KELAS FAAL!!!

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I've Learned My Lessons

Since I’ve been so absorbed in Hangugeo and Nihongo, I’m now a bit worried about my English. Once, I even forgot how to spell “dream”. That’s why I decided to write this in full English.
I’d like to share my experience that I’ve managed to be my teacher -- applying the proverb I read in Sidu notebook: "Experience is the best teacher"

1. Dry Monday
Monday, October 5, 2009 was a rough day for me. My boarding house ran out of water. Yup, it just stopped flowing. The thing I always take for granted was now nowhere to find. Turns out that I could do nothing without it. I couldn’t bathe, therefore I didn’t go to college. I couldn't cook rice and I could neither wash dishes nor wash my hands. That’s not all. Due to the absence of water to do cleaning after pee, I have to limit my amount of drinking. Or else, I’d have to frequently run to gas station just to pee.
When I told my mother about this, she became so anxious that she couldn’t leave me and Utin alone. She kept texting and calling us to ask how it’s going. In fact, this water-problem became her nightmare.
Well, thank goodness I have my friends. Every time I asked, they always welcome me to shower in their staying places. I took my evening bath in Dena’s boarding house, and I showered in Ike’s dorm the next morning. Fortunately, when I got home from college, the water-problem was already solved.
Moral: You never miss the water until it’s gone.
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Motor Naas

Kayaknya motorku itu minta dibikinin acara slametan deh. Setelah menindihku dengan semena-mena, 2 hari lalu dia jatoh pas diparkir di Fisipol. Aku gak liat sendiri sih kejadiannya. Tapi pas mau pulang aku sadar kalo spionnya lepas. Ini rutinitas si motor kalo abis jatoh. Dan parahnya lagi, helmku ilaaaaaang...!!
T.T

Belom cukup sampe di situ, kemaren tuh motor ngerjain aku lagi. Pas mau beli helm, eh di tengah jalan ban belakangnya goyang ampe mao jatoh. Ternyata harus setel velg. Depan-belakang pula. Udah gitu bengkel langgananku gak bisa benerin lagi. Terpaksa deh muter2 cari bengkel yang bisa stel roda. Nunggu luaaamma di tengah polusi Jakal, duit abiz, dan jadinya gak dapet helm. Ufff, motor caper!!!

Somebody please gimme a new one!
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